What No One Tells You About Grieving a Difficult Relationship
Grieving someone complicated is its own kind of trauma work.
It’s not about rewriting history or pretending it didn’t hurt.
It’s about honoring your story — fully, honestly, without minimizing or rushing.
When Grief Feels Invisible: A Note for Women Who Have Lost a Baby
You don’t have to find the lesson or make meaning right away.
You don’t have to be okay.
You get to fall apart.
You get to weep, rage, feel nothing, or feel too much.
You get to miss someone who was real — even if the world didn’t get to meet them.